Vietnam veteran, activist, and philanthropist Robert Dockendorff had a far-reaching impact on his country and community. From his Naval service to his involvement in civic, LGBTQ, and political organizations, Dockendorff was driven to serve the greater good. He died Dec. 9, 2024.
Vietnam veteran, activist, and philanthropist Robert Dockendorff had a far-reaching impact on his country and community. From his Naval service to his involvement in civic, LGBTQ, and political organizations, Dockendorff was driven to serve the greater good. He died Dec. 9, 2024.
After graduating from the University of Iowa, the Burlington, Iowa, native enlisted in the U.S. Navy, completed officer training, and served in Vietnam for three years. After settling in San Francisco, he joined the Naval Reserves, spending 21 years as a reservist. He also began a 33-year career at the Pacific Maritime Association, retiring as vice president of communications and research in 2003. With seemingly boundless energy and a passion for politics and public service, Dockendorff was involved in San Francisco’s gay community in the 1970s and 1980s. He joined the boards of Operation Concern, an LGBTQ mental health agency, and the Cable Car Awards. He shared a bus route with San Francisco Board Supervisor Harvey Milk, where they would discuss life and politics.
In 1990, Dockendorff was elected president of the Harvey Milk LGBTQ Democratic Club. Over the years, he promoted many public projects and political campaigns, including those for Mayor Art Agnos and California representative Nancy Pelosi.
Notably, Dockendorff was a leading advocate for the repeal of the 1993 "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" act. He and other gay veterans celebrated the act’s repeal in 2010.
Because of his belief in helping others achieve their aspirations, he supported UI scholarships for decades. His advocacy of inclusivity and diversity will always be remembered fondly.